Your Second Act

What will you do with the rest of your life? Rest? Or reinvent yourself? Statistics show that people in the work force today will have several careers over their lifetimes. The retirement this month of two schoolteacher friends of mine — and my husband’s second retirement — has me thinking about how long and vital lifetimes are today. If you can afford to retire and spend the rest of your life traveling and exploring, that may be enough for you (or me!) It’s a big, fascinating world. But many of us feel a restlessness not for necessarily for new places, but an itch born of the search for meaning, maybe from our upbringing in the sixties. We are seekers, happy but not entirely satisfied with the bringing up of children and the making of a nest egg. We still hope there might be more. And maybe in so-called retirement we’ll have the time to find it, or chase it at least. As a writer I struggle to find a balance between writing about things and people that matter, and actually going out into the world to help make it a better place. Sometimes I feel disappointed in myself that I don’t try harder, give more to the world, find a cause that matters deeply and give it my all. But I am protective of my time and energy. Writers can be a bit obsessive. We tend to latch onto our projects and ride them out to ‘the end.’ What if I love this new charity work so much I forget how to write? (I don’t want to ever forget the joy I get from writing.) Continue reading “Your Second Act”